I asked Micke for a technique session yesterday.

we trained footwork, punches kicks and combinations on pads,   ended with situps, back training , stomach hardening and stretching.

it was hard and tough, Micke says he was very pleased by my ability to take it , especially keeping a good form during the exercises.

It did not feel quite good because I felt so exhausted, but I was determined not to quit.

The main problem yesterday was balance, that was bad !

I will focus on technique for a while as I see I have some work to do in this aera, some details are in the way of me becoming better, flexibility and balance are huge problems and I need to fix them one way or another.

It is good news that my blog is read by people, however sometimes I get strange comments addressed to somebody else inside the JKD family.

Please read the front page, you will see who is the writer , my name is Gina and I am not a messenger so please make sure you send your messages to the right person.

The purpose of this blog is also stated on the front page, I will not take part in any war or be an intermediate person passing on your messages.

No offense to anyone, just make sure you contact the right person if you have something to say to them.

And to false potential students fishing for information, well I got an idea on who you are, so don´t bother !

When I say something to someone I will say the same to someone else if the subject is brought up.

This brings me friends and enemies, those you don´t agree and those who appreciate honesty. Well you can´t please everyone, the most important for me is to stand for what I believe in and know that some people can trust me because they know I always say what I think.

I am loyal to my instructor and to my other JKD friends, I will back them up anytime they need and I stand for this.

Loyalty is precious, it makes people be close and strong together and I can´t imagine anyone thinking this is wrong.

From the day we were  informed about Ted´s passing , some of us were quiet for a while and then started sharing loving memories.

Today is one week after this day, I have hardly trained anything at all during this week, I feel bad about it but I just could not, I have felt extremely tired , but the energy will have to come back now because there is a time for everything.

I told it before , my life is evolving around JKD,  I feel I have a purpose or a destiny, something that makes me be where I am today and I feel it inside. Time for me to put on my gloves and show myself what I got. It is funny how things in life just change, how people change. Before JKD I always needed some kind of acknowledgement, not anymore and it is not only about the martial art,  it is about me as a person. I feel now I have to do things for myself  because it feels right and if anything feels wrong I won´t do it, I don´t feel I have to please anyone against my own beliefs, which I did before.

Anyway life goes on and my goal now is to impress myself, I have quite high expectations which is good and make me see I have a huge amount of work in front of me, but this is all good because I have a plan…

 

This trip was full of surprises,  good and bad.

This is the beginning:

On Monday 22^nd Micke and I flew from Sweden to Switzerland to catch another flight to San Francisco. At the arrival in Switzerland I was stopped by the customs who told me I would not fly with this passport. I already had the boarding card but they said Sweden had made a mistake. That woman laughed at me saying “you are NOT flying” and to Micke “you are flying”. Micke told her he would not leave without me, we were both sent back to Sweden.

Now it is my responsability to have the right passport to travel but it was the Swedish airport’s responsability to let people fly with the right documents, had they stopped me I would have had the possibility to rearrange the trip instead of loosing it all.

Anyway I was so sad to miss it all,  I booked new tickets for the day after , thank God I found a reasonable price and used my Swedish passport ( which I had received after I booked the first trip) .

Wednesday 24^th, we are now flying from Sweden to France and then to San Francisco,  we even managed to get on the same plane as Jari.

Arrival in San Francisco at 16.30, sun shinning, beautiful day but we are extremely tired and fell asleep at 17.00 in the afternoon to wake up 06.00 the morning after!

 Thursday 25^th was the discovery day, the walking day, 6 hours in total, we went from Sutter Street to Union Square, China Town, Fisherman’s Warf, Lombard Street and back to Sutter St.

I have to say the best feeling I had was in China town I don’t know why, I felt good there and wanted to stay, I really like the Chinese culture and I was fascinated by the buildings and the atmosphere. We found Empress of China where Bruce´s birthday would take place,  as well as the Chinese hospital and for the first time in my life I ate dumplings, I loved it!

We came back in time to get a Thanksgiving dinner at the Hotel; this was really really nice…

Friday 26^th was the Golden Gate day,  the feeling there was great, fantastic weather and great view, we walked on the bridge and stopped at the middle , we could see it all, Alcatraz was in sight… ah the feeling on the bridge was great,  I only had seen it in the movies, this was so incredible to actually be there.

Then we moved on to the Golden Gate Park and to the Japanese Garden, small place but really beautiful.

Back to Union Square where we thought we would do some shopping… yes sure !!! this was black Friday, thousands of people everywhere, there was no way, so we stopped at burger king and went home…

In the evening we met with the JKD brothers at our hotel, Mike Gittelson, Dan Harris, Coske, Jari and some more people from Los Angeles and Spain. Nice to meet some new friends!

Saturday 27^th

At 13.00 we met with Jeff Chinn our tour guide at the Chinese hospital for the tour.  Jeff is a Bruce Lee Specialist, he seems to know almost everything about Bruce and behind this knowledge is a huge work of  researches. Jeff also has an impressive collection in his Bruce Lee Room… something I´d like to see someday 🙂 … This was great to hear lots of stories about Bruce’s life there, where he was born and the places where he used to be. The story about the theatres and the impact they had, we were shown unique pictures and told stories never heard before,  that was very interesting, Jeff and his wife are very nice people.

We had very little time to get back to the hotel to get ready for the dinner. At the dinner we sat with our friends at the left side of the scene, I could come forward and approach Linda who congratulated me for training Ted Wong JKD, I also told her I was from Sweden and she said she had some Swedish origins herself. I found Linda to be a very nice and sweet lady,  I was very happy to be able to meet her.

And Allen Joe, let me tell you, this man is adorable, he called me his favourite French girl :-). Allen even came to us later  and asked if we wanted to have a fortune teller read our hands.

I started  and he told me a lot of things that are actually true,  I was a bit surprised by some of them, for example when I asked how long it would take me to reach the level I want in JKD,  he answered 3 years, this is  exactly what Micke had wrote on facebook a couple of weeks ago  ..

When Micke sat he took his hand and said “OH here we have a JKD Master, you are a strong man”!  He turned to his father and said “this is a strong man,  you have a dragon in you” …….. Oh man, didn’t I hear that for the rest of the trip and still…….

The party was nice, meeting  Bruce’s family and friends was a great opportunity, but we really missed our Sifu Ted… After the party we went to the Hilton nearby to have a drink with our friends, we also met Allen again, he told Micke: “so she is one of your top students as I´ve  seen, you take care of her ! ” 🙂

Sunday 28^th

This is the Alcatraz day!!! as we missed our first tickets,  we could book them again and  this was the only day and time available. At 9.20 am the boat left from Pier 33.

Alcatraz was sensational, some mixed feelings though when I stepped in a block D cell , it felt strange and uncomfortable,  I was thinking about being locked in there , no light , nothing , just four walls… The audio tour with inmates and guards telling the stories and the final incredible escape,  was brilliant.

On the way back we stopped at Pier 39, at the Crab House restaurant, ah! the best Crabs and Service ever!

And of course, I had to go to China town one more time… I wanted to buy a frog and I ended up with two Lions (for protection) instead. 

Later we met Mike and Dan again at the Hotel just before they would fly back to Colorado.We exchanged some T shirts and I got a big white JKD Colorado T -shirt 🙂 Micke got a black one. We really get along with those guys, we planned to meet them again.

Monday 29^th, last day

We had planned to go to the airport around 12, up early I thought we had time for another round to China Town, yes I was obsessed By it, I loved the feeling I had there,  I just needed to be there one last time ( and I got my frog this time 🙂 )

I can say this trip was the best trip of my life,  I will never forget it.

We almost did not make it but we did and today I can say it was worth paying two times for it, I am happy I took that decision.

Tomorrow Mikael and I will meet at 06.00 am to get a cab to the airport. I can say this day is very stressful, I had to leave my cat to the cattery, then my phone fell in the toilet!!! and my suitcase is TOO SMALL !!!!!

Well I guess there won´t be much sleep for me tonight as I really don´t like flying, I bought a MP3 and loaded it with music anyway and I really hope for movies in the plane…

In two days we will be in the States,  I start to realize this is happening … I can´t wait to see this great town ,

 San Francisco,   here we come!

Yes it is now Friday night… two days and then at 6.00 am on Monday, I will jump in a cab towards Arlanda Airport.

At 9.25 we first fly to Switzerland and then to San francisco. Arrival 16.20 pm local time the day after but it will still be Monday in the States .

I checked the weather it should be Ok for the whole week. Now I only have to pack and hopefully I won´t forget anything.

I can´t really realize that in 3 days I will be in San Francisco , this feels unreal but as all good things,  this will go very fast so I will do everything  I can to enjoy every minute of it.

We planned all the usual tourist places to be,  then on friday night we will meet Jari , Mike and Dan.

Saturday is the big day, at 13.00 is the China Town walking tour and at 16.00 we will be allowed in the restaurant, Empress Of China where the party is.

I look forward to meet  people there, this will be for sure a night to remember.

We will fly back on Sunday at 19:25 again through Switzerland. Arrival time in Stockholm 18.55 pm the day after.

Around 15 hours flying time , this will be long, I have never travelled that long before…

I don´t think I will have time to write anything else before the departure, next post will be to tell how it went!

Yesterday we admitted a new member in the group : Niclas Thuresson. Niclas had taken a few lessons with Micke a few years ago and  last Sunday we decided to have him try again and as we feel Niclas is motivated, we decided to have him join the team.

As the session was dedicated to Niclas´first lesson,  Micke asked me to coach and comment. This was a good exercise actually , I felt good about it because I felt I knew what I was talking about and I could see the points which need to be worked on. I also could say that Niclas is not looking like a real beginner, which is good for the group.

Niclas  trained technique on pads/ mitts first and  tried some sparring at the end of the session, we always incorporate sparring very soon to avoid the fear of it.

Most students including myself are afraid of it at the beginning and try to avoid it, first of all if you want to avoid sparring train something else!  and second,  talking from experience,  sparring all the time makes you tougher and the fear disappears. The best of all is to spar against bigger and scary guys like Micke ( ! ), I mean it with most seriousness, this is the best because you are used to the tough treatment and believe me,  this WILL  help you.

Fear is your enemy , it makes you loose control and in JKD you need to be in control.

So we welcome a new member  to our Group, we certainly can use more serious members.

3 weeks to San Francisco , not everything is going as planned but this is how it goes, I just hope some of those things are not of a real serious kind…

Anyway I plan to get myself some rest and relaxation to get the tension down a bit .

Last year during the seminar with Ted and Allen , we started the session with some really good breathing exercises from Allen. I wrote them down and used them a couple of times, but this is the perfect time to use them now again. Allen said it was the perfect way to start the day and that it helped with stressful situations , and I agree, it certainly does.  I look forward to meet Allen and Ted again.

I am very excited about the event, celebrating Bruce´s birthday is something I would not even dream about earlier in my life, I think this is a great opportunity.

It will be the first time for me in the US, I have always wanted to go there but never had the chance to. San Francisco is one of the towns I always wanted to see but as the country is huge and so rich in fantastic landscapes, I really hope I can visit some other towns soon. Colorado is a plan for next year, our friends Mike and Dan invited us so I really hope I will be able to make it. It is never too late to fullfill some dreams and I really hope I will be able to see China someday …

 

I changed this post because there is enough people wanting to promote themselves and I don´t want to be seen as one of them. The nice quotes and feedback I got from my facebook friends are there anyway.

I decided to go a bit deeper in my feelings towards JKD and reveal a bit more about my own story.